The fateful incident .... November 2003
It wasn't obvious until long afterwards, but Nick and Helen had managed to alienate most of the Soyoukan Senior Black Belts, and by November the majority of them had been forced to leave, or had left and gone elsewhere. One particular black belt had been asked to leave by Andy (during 2002), at the request of Helen because she had reports of "perverse activities" from her daughter by him. He had allegedly looked at her funny, and was "wierd". It was a task that he didn't envy and was reluctant to do at the time, but felt it was necessary to ensure the continuing of the project. Besides, Helen had said she would report the matter to the Police if nothing was done.
So, the young guy is sadly told of the reasons behind the request and it is suggested that he should be extremely careful or he should look for alternative training venues after his relocating 60 miles north. He goes elsewhere.
On or around November 7th the young guy visited the centre unannounced. Andy had kept in touch with him via email and had said to visit anytime he was down this way, not really expecting he would. The Beaven's had what can only be described as a childish tantrum, demanding he should be told to leave yet not willing to tell him themselves. The behaviour was abominable, considering there was a guest instructor and customers present.
So, the young guy is sadly told of the reasons behind the request and it is suggested that he should be extremely careful or he should look for alternative training venues after his relocating 60 miles north. He goes elsewhere.
On or around November 7th the young guy visited the centre unannounced. Andy had kept in touch with him via email and had said to visit anytime he was down this way, not really expecting he would. The Beaven's had what can only be described as a childish tantrum, demanding he should be told to leave yet not willing to tell him themselves. The behaviour was abominable, considering there was a guest instructor and customers present.
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The Sad Demise of....
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At closing time there was one almighty argument about the visit of the ex-student. Voices were raised and things were said. Andy and Marisa left for home, with Andy closely avoiding a back hander from Nick as Helen blocked his way.
Next day Marisa phoned to arrange a meeting in order to discuss the future of the centre. A meeting was arranged for that evening and a lengthy discussion took place about what had occurred.
Eventually the team agreed to carry on, to put the events behind them and even shook hands to seal the deal. While there was a cooling down period in the working relationship, it was also a good time (christmas 2003) and the membership numbers increased.
Next day Marisa phoned to arrange a meeting in order to discuss the future of the centre. A meeting was arranged for that evening and a lengthy discussion took place about what had occurred.
Eventually the team agreed to carry on, to put the events behind them and even shook hands to seal the deal. While there was a cooling down period in the working relationship, it was also a good time (christmas 2003) and the membership numbers increased.